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Divorce is different from death, but not much!

James — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 22:50:25 +0000

Divorce is different than death, but it is loss none the less. The main difference is that in death, you won’t see the person again, they are gone from this earth. In divorce, you are apart, but you may see the other party again, maybe quiet often. It could be like poking a stick in a wound. It just never heals. Because of this open wound, divorce can be worse in some ways than the loss of a loved one.

Even though my son has been divorced for a couple of years, I happened to run into his ex last week. It was a little awkward, even though I have no hard feeling toward her nor do I blame her completely for the divorce. I can imagine it would be very different if my son had seen her. He may have felt grief from seeing her.

If you have been married to someone for even a short period of time, after a divorce you will feel grief from the loss. You will have many of the same emotional pains as any other griever.

You may feel guilt, loneliness, heartache, physical pain, depression plus many other emotional feelings.

The way to get over (or through) grief from divorce is the same as for death or any other loss. You must work through the emotional pain and get your life back. I use Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) to take care of these problems. EFT will help you get past the emotional pains of grief.

Please keep watching this website as I will be posting a video to teach you the techniques for doing EFT to overcome your grief pain.

James Einert, ND, CH

http://www.griefrecoverythatworks.com

How Long Should You Grieve?

James — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 21:45:56 +0000

How long should you grieve? That is a somewhat difficult question, but the short answer is until we die.
But wait, I am not talking about crying your eyes out everyday from now on. I am saying you will have times in your life from now until you die when something will trigger the memories of your loss. It may cause you some emotional pain for a few moments, but will quickly pass.
If you are crying or in deep depression daily for more than 6 months, you need help. In fact your grief reactions should get better after a month or two, and gradually get to the point where only occasionally will you have an emotional upset from you loss.
I know some people have a lot more trouble getting over a loss than this, but if you are having daily emotional pains, depression, guilt feelings, crying, or any other negative feelings or emotions from a loss after 2 or 3 months, then you need to keep watching this site as I will have more information on using Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) to overcome the pain and depression of grief and loss. I am writing a book and producing a companion DVD that will teach you all these techniques for specific problems of grief. You will be able to overcome your grief and help your friends and family.
I will also be posting videos and articles on this site to help you learn how to do these techniques.
If you haven’t already checked out my video page, you should check as I have a couple of videos from Robert Smith who is one of my teachers.
Please keep up with the site so I can help you overcome the pain of your grief.
God Bless you!
James Einert, ND, CH

http://www.griefrecoverythatworks.com

FREE GRIEF COUNSELING

James — Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:29:17 +0000

As I stated in my last post, I am offering free grief counseling using Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT).

This is research for a new book I am writing and a companion DVD.

EFT is a wonderful therapy. It is not medical nor is it psychotherapy. But rather a tapping on a few acupressure points, while saying some affirmations that are relevant to your emotional pain. It usually only takes a few minutes, has no side effects and works almost 100% of the time. It will not cause you to lose any memories of your loved one but will in fact enhance your memories and make them pain free. You will be able to enjoy thinking about your loved one again.

It also works for any loss, not just death, but divorce, a move, empty house pains, etc.

I will be accepting clients for a limited time so I can better understand the process of finding and releasing the emotional pain for each one personally. This will help me to be able to explain better in my book how each person can find the right affirmations for their own personal emotional problems.

If you are interested in this free grief counseling, please email me at griefrecoverythatworks@gmail.com

I will answer your email as soon as possible and set up a time for a telephone consultation so we can address your emotional pain.

Thank everyone in advance for your help in my research.

James Einert, ND, CH