More on the physical pain caused by grief
Posted By James on July 21, 2010
I am working on a book about the physical pain of grief, I hope to have it published in about a year (I am working on another book at the moment). I would like to have anyone who has had pain up to 6 months after a loss to write me and tell me your story. I will include it in the book (I will change your name so no one knows who you are). I hope to collect as many stories as possible to include.
I have received a couple of stories already. One was from a lady called Ann (not her real name) who lost both parents to cancer. She had taken care of them and she had no real health problems until their deaths. Now she has many problems, including physical pain, but she also has a lot of mental problems from the grief, including OCD, bi-polar, and many more. She also has a feeling of abandonment. I am working with her to find a solution to her problems.
I also got word of another woman who came down with a pinched nerve only a month after she lost her husband. I suspect the back pain is caused from the stress of losing her husband, and could be removed with counseling and/or hypnosis.
If you have started having pains, either mental or physical, after the loss of a loved one, or a divorce or a move, etc. Please visit your medical doctor to see if he can find a cause, but also be aware that MDs do not usually know that a physical pain can exist from a mental state, so he may find something physically wrong that is not the cause of your problem (for instance, a herniated disk does not always cause pain). If that is the case, if he does something physical to stop the pain, it may work, but be aware you will have a pain of some other type show up later if it is caused from your grief.
If you have a story to tell me, or would like to have some help with your problem, please email me at griefrecoverythatworks@gmail.com I will do my best to help you get relief or help you find someone in your area that can help you.
James Einert, ND, CH
http://www.griefrecoverythatworks.com/blog
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Hi i am suffering severe arm pain and upper back head I believe it is emotional b/c I have been tested for all inflamatory diseases. My 5 yr old died in dec very very unexpectedly. I was under enormous stress in sept and sick and the arm aching arrived stayed I used homeopathic emotional healing drops and they helped I must go abck and get more as I had a very sad week over halloween. Let me know what help you may have.
thanks Mimi
Mimi,
Thanks for your comment! I believe you are correct in believing this is caused from emotions.
Please go to my website at http://www.griefrecoverythatworks.com and click on the video heading. That will take you to two videos I did to show how to do the Emotional Freedom Techniques. Follow the instructions and tap on them as often as possible, for the loss of your child as well as for your pain. It may take a while to release these emotions completely, but it should work to get you past this pain.
If you have more questions please feel free to email me at jimeinert@gmail.com
Thanks!
James Einert ND, CH
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